Things guys hate to hear.

lilytrann:

1. We need to talk:  Once they hear this, they automatically think of everything what they might have did wrong. Even though they know they got nothing to feel guilty about these words usually sound like trouble. 
2. Friends: Talking about his guy friends may be a problem because if you tell him that you don’t like them, it’s a problem, but if you tell him you really like his friends, it’s also a big problem. Not liking them, means he has to choose between the two. But liking them, he’ll have insecurities that you and one of his friends may get too close. 
3. You are always like this: Saying “You’re always like this or you will never learn or change” is what no guys want to hear. One, you’re going to get him mad. Two, you’re just making a judgement from all the other guys. Give him a chance. 
4. Isn’t she pretty?: I’m pretty sure, girls always ask their boyfriends “Isn’t she pretty?” Guys generally choke answering this question because if he says no, you’ll probably say you never agree with me, BUT if he says yes, you’re gonna assume he checks out every other girl. 
5. My ex never did this: Never bring your ex into anything or compare him to your current boyfriend or date because what he did doesn’t even make a difference now and he was an ex for a good reason. Why make your boyfriend feel small in comparison and hurt his ego, in turn hurt your relationship. 

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Daily dose of me.: Things girls hate to hear about your ex

lilytrann:

1. GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS. If you’re in a relationship, no girlfriend wants to hear about you talking about girls, whether it’s your ex, girls that like you, or girls in general that you think are cute. If you do, be sure that you let her talk about guys and I doubt you want that because you’ll be end…